What Coming Off the Pill Taught Me About Anxiety, Gut Health, and Birth Control Side Effects

By my mid-twenties, I had accepted that I was “just an anxious person.”

My anxiety was through the roof on any given day. I planned my life around it, worried about things I hadn’t even done yet, and replayed what I had already said or done on a loop. It felt like my personality was wired for worry.

Life became a constant rotation of:

  • Laying awake at night, obsessing over my to-do list

  • Jolting awake in the morning, terrified I had missed a client session

  • Dreading simple work tasks

  • Sweating over social interactions

  • Living in a restless, jittery body

It was a vicious cycle, and I honestly thought most people operated the same way. I couldn’t even imagine what life would feel like without the weight of constant anxiety.

When Gut Health Shifted, So Did My Anxiety

I first began working on my gut health to tackle frequent yeast infections, acne, bloating, and inflammation. To my shock, my mental health began improving too.

I felt calmer. More grounded in my body. Less frazzled by everyday tasks.

About 90% of your serotonin—the “happy hormone” that regulates mood—is produced in the gut. If your microbiome is out of balance, your mental health will reflect it. Clearing infections, reducing inflammation, and healing my gut didn’t just improve my skin and digestion. It gave me glimpses of peace I hadn’t felt in years.

But my acne still lingered. And my anxiety, though better, was still humming beneath the surface.

The Final Piece — Removing My Hormonal IUD

For over a year, I had been debating removing my Skyla IUD. My esthetician (shoutout to Lauren of Soul Skin Studio!) helped me make huge progress on my skin with a holistic approach, but we both suspected my suppressed hormones were the missing puzzle piece. I kept wondering whether the pill, or any form of hormonal birth control, might be influencing my mood and my skin.

After five years, I decided to have my IUD removed. The change was almost instantaneous. I felt lighter, happier, and more like myself than I had in years. Suddenly, I was excited about life again, experienced real pleasure, and began to embrace the natural rhythms of my menstrual cycle instead of feeling like I was fighting against my body.

IUDs still count as hormonal contraceptives unless it is the copper IUD

IUDs still count as hormonal contraceptives unless it is the copper IUD

Do Hormonal Contraceptives Affect Mental Health?

In The Fifth Vital Sign by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack, she summarizes the research linking hormonal contraceptives and mood disorders. While not everyone is affected, studies and clinical reports indicate that the pill, hormonal IUDs, and implants can be associated with increased anxiety, depression, and mood instability for some users. These are important birth control side effects to be aware of and discuss with your provider.

Hormonal contraceptives can and do contribute to anxiety, depression, and mood instability

Hormonal contraceptives can and do contribute to anxiety, depression, and mood instability

Why This Happens — Nutrient Depletion & Biochemistry

A commonly discussed mechanism is nutrient depletion. Hormonal contraceptives can interfere with absorption and metabolism of certain vitamins and minerals—especially vitamin B6. B6 is required to convert tryptophan into serotonin; without adequate serotonin, risk of anxiety and depression can increase. In short: for some people, the pill or other hormonal birth control may contribute to mood disruption via biochemical pathways.

What You Can Do — Practical Steps

  • Get Your Bloodwork Done'

    • Ask your clinician for labs that include B vitamins, B12, folate, and related nutrient markers. Some people need methylated forms to absorb properly.

  • Increase Vitamin B6 Through Food

    • Grass-fed beef liver

    • Pasture-raised poultry

    • Wild-caught tuna and salmon

    • Chickpeas

    • Bananas, papayas, oranges, cantaloupe

    • Dark leafy greens

  • Consider a Targeted Supplement

    • If diet isn’t enough, a practitioner-recommended supplement can help restore depleted nutrients. Options include

  • Heal Your Gut

    • Support your microbiome with a diverse, fiber-rich diet, appropriate probiotics, reduced inflammatory foods, and liver-supporting habits.

  • Consider Transitioning Off Hormonal Birth Control (with guidance)

    • If you suspect the pill or your hormonal IUD is causing mood issues, discuss a supervised transition with your provider. Non-hormonal options include the copper IUD, barrier methods (condoms, diaphragm), and fertility awareness methods. If you’re considering coming off hormonal birth control, my ebook Ditch the Pill: A Roadmap to Reclaiming Your Hormonal Health covers step-by-step transition guidance, cycle‑tracking, and how to support your body through the process.

Final Thoughts

If you’ve noticed anxiety, depression, or mood swings since starting the pill or another form of hormonal birth control, it’s reasonable to consider birth control side effects as a potential factor. You deserve to know how hormonal contraceptives may affect your mental health and to make informed choices. Testing nutrients, supporting gut health, and reviewing non-hormonal birth control options with a clinician are practical next steps. For a deeper roadmap on transitioning off hormonal birth control and reclaiming your hormonal health, see my ebook Ditch the Pill: A Roadmap to Reclaiming Your Hormonal Health.



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